Yep, thats the way its going.
If we can save one child, it will be worth it.
If we can save one child, it will be worth it.
Just so you know, I'm sure the police weren't the lead agency.....In my experience DHS will get an ORDER from a judge to take the children. Usually the police are only there to preserve the peace.....I'm sure they didn't just walk in and grab the kid for shits and giggles people.....c'mon. Because we know the media is ALWAYS telling the truth. I swear I'm getting tired of hearing people piss and moan.....What do expect it effing CA.....
Don't think this can't happen in Ok.
We had a family member get into an argument with an inlaw relative, and got turned into the DHS.
Police and DHS rep showed up at the front door one night. They took the kids and it took awhile to settle it.
In Ok, all somebody has to do is report you for abuse.
Guilty or not, they will take your kids, and if you want to die in the process, go ahead and be a Rambo .
The DHS has way too much authority.
Two things I hate about my job......having to remove children from their family (most of the time it is warranted) and hearing everyone tell me how to do my job....Armchair quarterbacks piss me off.
I have to be a little circumspect with my comments but here goes...
First, I am not a dedicated complainer about government, I spent an entire career as a military officer and now work for the government as a civilian. My wife works as a volunteer case worker in an organization that frequently deals with DHS and my assessment is that I never seen such a dysfunctional, self-serving, organizational imperative oriented organization as OK DHS (and I hail originall from NY the Mecca of dysfunctional organizations).
Even worse though, is that once DHS, for good or ill, has their hooks into a parent it is very, very difficult for the parents(s) to get out from under the cloud of suspicion, or even more seriously regain control of their lives and their family. DHS seems, to me, to function on a fairly arbitrary basis with standards for starting or terminating interventions in people's private lives varying widely from case to case. In addition, DHS seems very susceptible (perhaps because of current limited accountability to a strong executive) to political pressure to amend findings or create barriers as is expedient to "please" influential authorities. What I have learned most from being an outside observer is that any government agency must be watched like a hawk because once power to intervene in people's lives is ceded the tendency to intervene, arbitrarily and capriciously at times, becomes overwhelming.
One can certainly argue that some government intervention is necessary from time to time with bad parents, but the companion to that should be that any intervention capability has to be guided by clear and consistent principles (due process) with accountability for the agency and clear appeals processes and rights for parents.
Sorry - rant off.
That would be time to engage
Your exactly correct. The DHS was the lead on this deal that I'm talking about.
Leo's were there to make sure there wasn't a problem.
What really sucks, and like in the OP, even though it was bogus, the DHS still make the dad go through "anger management" classes because he bucked up to the OKLA DHS agent.
What dad/mom wouldn't when they knock on the door and your kids go away with armed men making sure it happened??
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