"you've effectively poked holes in every piece of advice that you solicited in your original post" you're going to have to explain that one to me because I fail to see what you're getting at.Do you realize you've effectively poked holes in every piece of advice that you solicited in your original post?
I am genuinely curious if your unaware of a social gaffe or you have a irrational (at least to a majority or your selected peers) fear of this situation.
Either way this is probably the incorrect venue for the assistance you need at this time.
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