I'm just looking at the picture you posted. Is that your bolt? It doesn't look like any standard 5.56MM AR-15 bolt that I've seen. Of course I'm assuming you are running a standard DI 5.56 gun.
It is way bigger than 5.56, but it is not a 9mm. 9mm is blowback and has no locking lugs. 9mm also does not have a seperate bolt head. It is machined as part of the carrier. I think SMS was right about it being a x39 or some other caliber.