Ive had to manage someone like that, but she would get emotional and angry. After the second experience, I refused to have discussions with her without a third person in the room and all performance reviews were done with HR present. Her last day was on 12/31 of that year and she LOST it on our HR rep because she thought working through the last day made her eligible for a bonus that didnt pay out until March of the following year.We have this young man where I work (and there is some hesitation on my part in really applying the term man ) who broke down in tears very publicly when his manager counseled him on some areas which were lacking in his job performance . He clearly hadn't had to deal with being told his work was subpar or needed improvement , who is to blame entirely for such an episode probably has a multi faceted answer that started with everyone gets a trophy.
Parents obviously played a large hand as did his educators .
My approach with our two kids is to be very clear about whether they are being coached or reprimanded. 8:1 are coaching moments to actually getting in trouble and it seems to really work for keeping them as receptive as we could expect them to be. My wife, son and I are pretty logic driven so it really seems to work great for us, the jury is out on our 8yo emotionally motivated daughter though haha. She just doesnt like to hear anything other than how amazing she is haha.