Call Chad Lee, tell him Clay referred him. I'll PM you his number.I am starting to get to that point. 30 years ago, heck even 10 years ago I would have had the whole thing done in an hour including the trip to Lowes getting the parts. Now it has been days and I am still fighting this mother.
And yes the gasket is in place correctly. I am afraid I am going to have to get the old strainer out.