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My last ex, my daughters mother, her father is Italian and her mother is German. I ate alot of both of their foods the 10 years we were married as well as visiting Germany and Italy twice. My current wife is also part Italian but she doesnt care much for tomatoes or cheese, go figure, so we either dont take her out with us much or we go some where that she can get something she likes. She's part Italian and she likes Olive Garden, their soup/salad/breadsticks is her fave. She's a weird one.
I think Ive eaten at every joint mentioned locally and if I had to choose a place that had good food and also was casual then it would be a Napoli's, the one in BA is my fave, There are several in the area. Alot of the people running the different Napoli's in the area are related too Ive read. We go to Andolini's for the most awesome pizzas. Marys is great. Ti Amos, ok.
Tulsa needs a Buca Di Beppos. Closest one would be in Dallas or Kansas City. We go to our favorite one in San Jose or San Francisco when home in California.