This:
"The United States is despised by some in the world for a simple reason. It is not because they "hate our freedom" as George W. Bush often stated, but because we have invaded their countries and killed their brothers. We have funded the bombers that blew up their families or the drones that inflicted "collateral damage" upon their nations. Moderate Muslims are turned into radicals and jihadists by the involvement of U.S. troops and drones in Pakistan, Iraq, Afghanistan and Yemen."
... seems to be a common thread of late amongst predominantly younger people, most who have never been outside of their own state, let alone this country.
I've been around the world and the United States is not despised as much as those pundits who argue the point would have you believe. It's very popular to televise American effigy and flag burning; much more so than the incredible amount of good things that we do, buildings we raise, lives we save, mouths we feed, medicines we distribute, etc...
I've been welcomed with open arms and bottles of champange (literally) by those who felt the good that American's do in both humanitarian aid and in combating those who kill and opress the weak. I'm a Marine who wears both a Humanitarian Service Medal AND a Combat Action Ribbon... I know first hand both sides of our efforts in this regard.
Certainly the force we have used and continue to use against the likes of the Taliban and others are not without equal and opposite reactions amongst those involved in or assocated with those enemies. I'm sure the brother of a Taliban fighter hates Americans because we killed his kin. I'm positive that Saddam and his army didn't care for us. Personally, I think having killers, dictators, terrorists, tyrants and their minions as enemies is the way it ought to be...
I'll concede that we spend a ton of money on defense to support all of these actions and more. I'd rather we didn't, but using the argument that we have to stop killing killers or they will hate us is just silly justification for it. More than anything, I'd like to see every single one of our Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines come home without a scratch, but their cause is just and their actions and intentions are true.
There are all kinds of reasons to argue against American foreign policy, but the trend to blame some imaginary worldwide hatred that we caused on it is IMHO, a non-starter.
Of course... that's just my opinion though. I could be wrong.
Very well said and accurate from what I have seen. I do some business in the mid-east and have several friends there, we are not nearly as hated as some would have you believe.