So take it out on ODWC and the OK state legislators who make the rules, ask for change. In this case, is retrieverman hunting in your potential spot and killing the deer you wanted? Lol
I do that regularly, out staters can stay at home and hunt , boat do whatever you want there. I would 100% be OK if Oklahoma had the same hunting regulations Kansas had 30 years ago. They prohibited out state hunters for the longest time .
I've had people call and approach me about leasing family land . I think I told the last Texan it would cost 100,000 for a lease. I am sure they went elsewhere and found one but I'd also be ok if lease hunting was prohibited entirely.