I have ordered from BotachTactical several times and have never had any problems.
I was in that boat, until my last order went unfilled... sent several emails... no responses... it's been 8 weeks now. It was an item (hearing protectors) that was advertised as a special, and I placed my order immediately after receiving the email. I figure it's a price mistake and their simply sitting on the orders.
"Thank You for contacting us regarding an BackOrder Status/ ETA request. A member of our staff will get back to you within 24-48 business hours."
Yeah right.
Based on their reputation, I don't order things I need right away from Botach. Only occasionally will I order something because it's really cheap and I can stand being bent over and Botach'd. guess it was my turn this time.
Who knows, maybe I'm wrong, I'm giving them a call when they open up this morning.