If you want, there are studies out there that show 1) cyclists break the law less often than motorists and 2) many cases when they do break the law, it's often a response to bad road design/infrastructure. But i doubt you care.
We've got many members where who ride. Even a former member who won one of the crits at Tulsa tough a few years ago. I'm sure we could get you out riding if you wanted to learn about it and increase your understanding.
I think you may be on to something. When I see a group of MAMILs, as you call them - riding in a pack of 20, preventing traffic from going even the minimum speed limit, what's there to learn?