Something else you can try with that hand guard is getting two pieces of steel bar that'll fit in the gas tube holes. Put them on opposite sides, stick a screw driver between them and wrench it on. It obviously won't be torqued correctly, but I bet it'll get it on tighter than a strap wrench. The first upper I ever built wasn't torqued at all and it was splendidly accurate.
Most of the guys who build AR's for accuracy, torque them just like I said. Snug it, then take it to the next hole that lines up. No reason to go tighter.
BTW, I'm just shooting the 123 grain Hornady factory ammo.