Pretty good advice. And, consider setting up an easel during dessert and show her some flip charts that highlight your investments and earning potential. Feel free to exaggerate as needed--she'll love you for it.
Pretty good advice. And, consider setting up an easel during dessert and show her some flip charts that highlight your investments and earning potential. Feel free to exaggerate as needed--she'll love you for it.
You must know how to build up trust pretty quickly, if you can have the woman come to your place, or go to her place, to cook dinner - on the first date? Or are you talking of preparing the meal, then serving it at a neutral place like a park?
Know what impressed me the most on our first date? The fact that GC talked to me, not my boobs. Man looked me in the eye all through lunch. I learned later that he snuck a peek or two but I didn't catch him. That is impressive in it's own right because I was keeping an eye on him ... lol
(Yeah, I didn't do dinner dates back then ... Had to get home to the kids after work but I'd be glad to meet a guy for lunch.) Besides, a man who won't take you to lunch when he knows you have to get back to work -- no chance to score a quickie
or try to wear you down -- isn't worth dating in the first place. I really thinned the herd quickly with my No Dinner Dates rule.
(Yeah, I didn't do dinner dates back then ... Had to get home to the kids after work but I'd be glad to meet a guy for lunch.) Besides, a man who won't take you to lunch when he knows you have to get back to work -- no chance to score a quickie
or try to wear you down -- isn't worth dating in the first place. I really thinned the herd quickly with my No Dinner Dates rule.
I actually think you missed the point. The OP asked for a restaurant, so we suggested restaurants. If had asked for date ideas, we'd suggest date ideas. Also, you could come off as cheap if you never take her out.
Ruffies...
I would think a guy would prefer a lunch date to a dinner date - what if he didn't care for the woman? It's easier to bail quickly at lunchtime, using the "back to work" excuse, than to fall back on the "emergency" call from a friend at dinnertime
LOL ...
I would think a guy would prefer a lunch date to a dinner date - what if he didn't care for the woman? It's easier to bail quickly at lunchtime, using the "back to work" excuse, than to fall back on the "emergency" call from a friend at dinnertime
Yep ... that knife does cut both ways but I was amazed at the number of guys who wanted dinner dates (and drinks) but weren't willing to go to lunch (no drinks) ... no skin off my teeth, just one less "hey, you owe me cuz I bought you dinner and besides you know you want it ... I'm hot (or powerful .. or a lawyer...), you're lucky I asked you out" arguments I had to deal with ...
It's been almost 20 years since I have had to date anyone so I might just be showing my age here but I never just asked some stranger out. I always knew the person first so there was already trust.
That's why you do a 3-4 course meal not chinese take out. You can always take her out to a nice restaraunt on the next date (as stated above). I am just saying what worked me...to each their own.
Look.....bottom line.....you want this woman to really, really like you right??!!
**Just do what Chef told Stan to do, to make a woman really like him!!!***
Southpark style!!!
You know this is a joke........boy am I gonna be banned for a few months for that JOKE!!!
Cohiba
**Just do what Chef told Stan to do, to make a woman really like him!!!***
Southpark style!!!
You know this is a joke........boy am I gonna be banned for a few months for that JOKE!!!
Cohiba
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