First off,my wife gives at church and other charities thru her business so we're covered there. Myself Im not very charitable,not especially religious,and outside of my social circle,not very sociable. I'm also about 5'10"x 265-275 solid,depending on my eating schedule and workouts,heavily tattooed,usually dressed down in my 'prison issue' looking outfit. If I'm not CCing,I have a blade, always. The beggars I come across pretty much dont ask me for ****. I think I look like I might need a handout to some people probably and it suits me just fine. And these days any body who looks at me weird is a suspect. Wherever I happen to be at any time of day or night,its usually head down and walking to my truck as quick as possible with one goal in mind,to get there, safe. Once there **** em. If my kids or wife are with me then I usually always lag behind and have them walk in front of me. Once we're at the 4x4 we're home bound.