Some guys are just unbelievable little pansies

[KOPBET]

I'm gonna go armchair Kojak on you for a second, but I think domestic violence (and I use the term deliberately loosely here) is one area where officer discretion has been cut way back in recent times, and the officers are being instructed more and more to bring people in for booking (and let the attorneys figure it out after the fact). For better or worse.

Agreed.

But if you go back and read the OP, the you'll see my post was a rant and my opinion this guy was a pansy. Not a point of law about man vs. woman. Also how I sometimes hate how the justice system works.

If others don't like my ranting butthurt thoughts they can leave the thread. I've seen hundreds of rants here and too many like to go Perry Mason on them. I don't care. I promise not to ***** slap the girls.

 

[Billybob]

Well yes. A female aggressor IS different. What's beyond belief is that you equate the two as equal.

There is the basis of the problem, Some consider one gender, religion, race, profession, etc. "more equal" than others when it benefits them and they can use it against others even when they're wrong. While at the same time the b.s. is peddled and shoved down kids throats in school that we're equal, the law is the law etc., we wonder why many kids have no respect when we're asking them to respect lies. If we were honest about how this game really works how long would it last?

 

[David2012]

It is a whole lot more effective [and cheaper] to just kick'em to the curb and forget them. Simply walking away from someone in a relationship who was unfaithful.... and ending all contact with them... hurts the offending person's ego a whole lot longer than a slap or punch hurts the body. It makes them feel like they have no personal value.

 

[Billybob]

What's beyond belief is that you consider the consequences of a ***** slap on the back fair justice.

What about when there's an argument and a man yells at a woman(considered verbal abuse) and the woman gets a vpo against him because she tells the judge she's "in fear" so he's kicked out of his home, maybe can't see his kids, and loses his guns, is that fair justice?

 

[KOPBET]

There is the basis of the problem, Some consider one gender, religion, race, profession, etc. "more equal" than others when it benefits them and they can use it against others even when they're wrong.?

Maybe I misread the definition of disparity of force in Oklahoma, but I seem to recall a difference between a male and a female in there.

 

[KOPBET]

What about when there's an argument and a man yells at a woman(considered verbal abuse) and the woman gets a vpo against him because she tells the judge she's "in fear" so he's kicked out of his home, maybe can't see his kids, and loses his guns, is that fair justice?

Of course not. But it is a red herring.

 

[RatTerrier]

Sounds like equal rights and the justice system worked. Hopefully the ex Marine finds him a better girl time. If the ex Marine woulda slapped her then he'd be a big bad guy. She's gettin what she had comin and the ex Marine probly did himself a huge favor by handling the situation like he did by involving law enforcement rather than hitting back or whatever.

 

[KOPBET]

Hopefully the ex Marine finds him a better girl time.

By that do you mean one he can sleep around on and not get caught or won't care if he does?

 

[penismightier]

The consequences in this case are pretty harsh considering the "crime".

There have been no consequences yet. The judge could get the report, and immediately drop it or dismiss it.

The whole point of the OP was to suggest that the "victim" male used the consequences to get even instead of accepting responsibility for what he did to her. Even if the poor boy had to get a little red skin on the back.

It's all a rant and it's all my opinion.

He has no responsibility to her at all.

 

[HMCS(FMF)Ret.]

Maybe I misread the definition of disparity of force in Oklahoma, but I seem to recall a difference between a male and a female in there.

Must suck to feel so inferior. Poor gal. I pity you both.