Love...

[NikatKimber]

Wow... at the responses here.


But I'll agree with the "stop looking" advice. I finally gave up trying, and when God's time was right, it happened. Been married a little over three years now.

 

[HMFIC]

Best thing you can do is to work to improve yourself in every way and don't worry, she'll find you.

It's the law of nature.

 

[Danny Tanner]

Wow... at the responses here.


But I'll agree with the "stop looking" advice. I finally gave up trying, and when God's time was right, it happened. Been married a little over three years now.

Best thing you can do is to work to improve yourself in every way and don't worry, she'll find you.

It's the law of nature.

Yep, I've already said it once and I'll agree with these guys and say it again.

Learn to be content with being single, and just when you're really starting to enjoy it, BAM! There's a woman knocking at your door eager to ruin it.

 

[Cinaet]

Love is highly overrated, mostly by people who want company in their misery. Marry for money or position. Take 'feelings' out of the equation. Use your head (the one between your ears). Only way to go.

 

[redmax51]

Plenty of Fish.com = Hookerville. you need a SlumpBuster!!!!

Says the newly wed.....what does your wife think J.??

 

[redmax51]

Ask JB Books about the mail order bride service he used to find a woman that could/would tolerate him.

What makes you think she tolerates him?? She's just waiting for the right moment to _________ him. You fill in the blank.

Oh yeah,landman,there's always ThaMastaChief !!

 

[Keyser328]

Learn to be content with being single, and just when you're really starting to enjoy it, BAM! There's a woman knocking at your door eager to ruin it.

That is the truth, at least about the comfort part. Be happy with yourself, have some self confidence, and be content with where you are in life. Piss on the naysayers telling you to hurry up. People are drawn to confident and comfortable people.

I consider myself lucky. I met a gal when I wasn't looking. We got to know each other and became very close friends. Now, a dozen odd years later, she's still my best friend AND she lets me see her naked. Win-win in my book.

 

[BadgeBunny]

But seriously, have you tried posing nude with a strategically placed cowboy hat?

Nothin' more to be said!!

(And Landman ... I am STILL in therapy!! LOL)

Seriously, though ... don't sweat it ... these things run in cycles ... I am another of those in the "wasn't looking for "it" ... finally didn't want "it" ... and BAM ... there "it" was ... category"

 

[Danny Tanner]

That is the truth, at least about the comfort part. Be happy with yourself, have some self confidence, and be content with where you are in life. Piss on the naysayers telling you to hurry up. People are drawn to confident and comfortable people.

I consider myself lucky. I met a gal when I wasn't looking. We got to know each other and became very close friends. Now, a dozen odd years later, she's still my best friend AND she lets me see her naked. Win-win in my book.

Same here. She was my best friend without ever having even a joke about the two of us dating. I was never interested or entertained the thought, she felt the same way. You really get to know a girl by being her best friend. Now I literally cannot imagine my future without her in it.

 

[rhodesbe]

Poor guy will never live that picture down...