what kind of man doesn't already have a shovel
Yeah, but how many men do you know who get to dig every single night of the week?? I'm telling you (as a woman who's a hard nut to crack) that certain, seemingly meaningless (to men) gestures are tantamount to falling on a sword (to women) and the vast majority of women are willing to repay that kindness in spades ... (And in ways that would make any good mother's ears burn ... )