Your pay and benefits driving that big brown truck are better than most people with a college degree so you ain't doing too bad. My doc told me he has $400k in student loans, is micro managed by Mercy, and wishes he had never gone to med school. I hope the 28 year old doc is in a better situation than he is. It's good to focus on school and also plan to get on your own when you become an adult. Sounds like your lady wants the best for them and won't let them stay in the nest too long. You've been off quite a while with those knees haven't you? Are they doing good?My Lady has a 16 year old and will not allow her to get a job so that she can focus on school. Her oldest was raised the same way, she's 28 and a Dr. I wish I could have done it that way and focused on school. 31 years later and I'm driving a big brown truck(currently on w/c with brand new knees.)