Buy your own land. Problem solved. Other then family I’m not dragging anyone else along.
Those extra hands are great until they turn on you. Family members only. And a couple of those I’d keep a close eye on.
Family is the first bunch I'd cross OFF my list. I'd rather bug out with a number of the people here than be cursed dragging anyone outside my wife and son that is a member of my family. I'll eat a bullet first.
Reading Matt Backen's book series right now and more and more of what I read looks more and more like what I see. <sigh>