You keep mentioning hatred...but youre using that word very loosely. It doesnt mean what you are inferring it means. You are equating intolerance of a persons behavior with hatred. Thats not what hatred means.
The question wasnt directed to me, but ill answer it anyway. No i wouldnt divorce her, since i dont believe in divorce (what God has joined together, let no man tear apart), but yes...i would absolutely still believe in a God that would send her to hell. Why should my belief in God change just because im now married?
Wow...then I'm glad I don't believe in your God. Sounds like a pretty hateful guy. Maybe you should join ISIS. Seems like you have something in common.