a girl who never had anything else... maybe she's trying to sow her oats...
a girl who never had anything else... maybe she's trying to sow her oats...
See what I mean, Kyle?
Wait until it happens in real life. People sure loved to tell my sister about her marriage this summer. Because they were married too so they know all about my sister and her husband and what they should do and what kind of people they both are. Once you are in a relationship you have been in every relationship and once you've been married you have been in every marriage. That's how it works.
Wait until it happens in real life. People sure loved to tell my sister about her marriage this summer. Because they were married too so they know all about my sister and her husband and what they should do and what kind of people they both are. Once you are in a relationship you have been in every relationship and once you've been married you have been in every marriage. That's how it works.
so Dr. Phil, did you fix it for them??
what does your sister have to do with this? not every girl is your sister.
I've known her for that long, didn't say I was with her for that long.
None of us can predict the future. Few of us can interpret the past without calling our own experience into account. What matters most is that 264 seems to be among friends here--that is, among people who care about how he's doing and how he's dealing with this situation. We don't have to know him to do that; we simply have had to go thru a situation similar to his. Having gone thru something like it ourselves, we can hazard a guess as to how it affects someone else, and we offer what advice we can. That is what they call "empathy." The world would be a far sight sorrier without empathy...no matter how misguided it would appear to be applied in this case.
I don't give relationship advice, and other parties can't fix relationships for other people. Probably why people talk to me. I just laugh at people that think because they have relationship experience it makes then qualified to judge other people and predict the future.
Anyways, you were telling us about 264's ex and what she's gonna do in the future. Please continue.
Empathy is fine. Shitting on someone's ex is not empathy, and saying "you're an idiot if you give her another chance" is not empathy.
so, she dumped you and now you're defending her??? dude....
where did you get that??
Right here:
Not singling you out because you're one of many; just replying because you asked.
This is also helpful advice.
Yes. That's what happens when you've been friends with someone for almost half your life. What am I supposed to do, blow up her car and burn the house down? Cuss like there's no tomorrow and recant how vile and horrible a person she is? That doesn't seem like a healthy way to deal with the problem.
