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Logical? Yes. Also, Did it screw up any chance of a good LTR/marriage with him (if that was the goal)? Yes. Unless you do some serious backpeddling.

Romance ain't got a lot to do with logic. Well it does, but you cannot SAY the truth in so many words like that, when it's direct frontal assault on someone's ego or romantic ideals.

It's no so much "mean" as it is "un-conducive to furthering and strengthening the relationship". But maybe it's for the best, if you're not compatible. If you're serious, as it sounds like you are, best that he know NOW rather than later. And get the @#$% out of the relationship. As most anyone would after hearing that, blissninny couch potato or otherwise. Go find yourself an outdoorsman with survival skills - then everyone is much happier - you, the new BF, and the old BF.
 

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To be totally honest with you, dump him. If you can't see yourself keeping him around in a need to survive situation, then ultimately you don't see him as a man, and your relationship will never work properly.
 

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IDC Amber.... I think that was an awesome way of keeping his expectations low... dating now is like the job market... this one will do until a better one comes along. I know what the dating world is like now and lets just say the gene pool is getting pretty shallow.

This is too serious though... I want to see the post apocalyptic wardrobe ;)
 

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If the SHTF, I am getting a harem, and work my way through them looking for keepers.

****s? check
Nice butt? check
Willing to do what I ask? check
Outdoors type? crap, toss this one, start over with the next.

I anticipate it only taking 50 or 60 before I find 4 or 5 keepers.....
 

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If the SHTF, I am getting a harem, and work my way through them looking for keepers.

****s? check
Nice butt? check
Willing to do what I ask? check
Outdoors type? crap, toss this one, start over with the next.

I anticipate it only taking 50 or 60 before I find 4 or 5 keepers.....

Sounds like a plan... I'm using the "repopulate the planet" excuse for multiple partners and omitting that I have had a vasectomy... ;)
 

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