So I've seen this throughout my life. Men suffering in silence. I know of a guy that lost his wife unexpectedly and has two kids. That's pain. That's real pain. He seems to think he soldiers on and covers it all up. And he does. I don't personally know him so I can't speak to this situation. But is that how men are supposed to be? In our culture a man that needs help is a failure. However, how much loss can a man suffer before he is due some support? Any amount?